From a male blog reader
Hello! My name is Akande, I recently got married to my wife in January last year and by then she was already heavily pregnant for 5 months.We had a lot of issues with the church and we got married in a registry. We didn't have the sex-filled honeymoon like every other wedding because my wife was afraid of miscarriage, I waited till she gave birth in may 23 last year ; I gave her two more months before I asked her for sex which she refused and said she need to nurse the baby for at least 5 months more which I obliged. The 5 months lapsed and I ask her for sex then she gave me the shock of my life by telling me she wants us to put 5 years gap between this baby and our next child. I asked her if this is the reason why she won't give me sex and she said yes. I was furious and I told her I can't allow her to have any family planning and that the year gap I want between our babies can not be more than 2 years and that it doesn't stop us from having sex.
She said she will only allow us to have sex if only I will use condom and am not the condom lover. She even now cared more about the child than me her husband.
Please help me she is sex starving me and I don't want to have extra-marital affairs, their are lots of working class women in my place of work who will agree on us having a secret relationship.
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